Until today, I subscribed to the Consistent Life organization’s email newsletter “Peace and Life
Connections.” I’m pro-life, believing that all life is sacred and that, in
concert w/ Feminists for Life,
abortion primarily means we as a society still aren’t doing enough for women
and children. I also hold to a pro-life stance as an adoptee, born out of
wedlock to a mother who with little choice in her day nurtured me to term and
birthed me to life. But today, I read
this in issue #156, the April 19th “Peace and Life Connections” newsletter:
It’s
easy to account for why the outrage at the Boston Marathon got media coverage
overshadowing the trial of abortionist Kermit Gosnell. Even though his 8
counts of murder (7 infants, 1 woman) and mass injury were greater than
that at Boston, in Boston it was concentrated in time, new, and very public,
whereas Gosnell’s carnage stretched over years and behind closed doors.
I immediately unsubscribed.
I mean seriously? The pro-life
movement is now resorting to death one-upmanship?? The deaths of an 8-year-old boy, a Chinese
international graduate student, and a beloved young woman just getting started
in her life are less newsworthy because fewer people died? The young boy’s 6-year old sister losing her
leg, his mother suffering brain trauma, and the many other amputations and
injuries don’t deserve the media attention they received? Seriously?
I detest the taking of innocent unborn infants’ developing lives, making these souls the enemy of women, hiding the reality of their slaughter in medical terms—embryo, fetus, abortion procedure. That the U.S. annual abortion rate is still over 1 million is abhorrent, a sign as I see it that our society is dysfunctional to the core and has a whole lotta work to do on behalf of our women and children.
I detest the taking of innocent unborn infants’ developing lives, making these souls the enemy of women, hiding the reality of their slaughter in medical terms—embryo, fetus, abortion procedure. That the U.S. annual abortion rate is still over 1 million is abhorrent, a sign as I see it that our society is dysfunctional to the core and has a whole lotta work to do on behalf of our women and children.
But trivializing the carnage that took place in Boston as a
pro-life argument—especially in a newsletter self-identifying as an
organization of peace, life, and connection—is offensive and wholly inexcusable.
I was already troubled by the silence of pro-life
organizations at the extreme war on women waged over the past campaign year and
still ongoing in many states. It’s not just
pro-choice advocates creating an adversarial relationship between women and
their unborn babies.
Conservative, mostly male, state and federal policy makers
are likewise arguing a similar dichotomy, with women the enemy of the unborn
rather than the other way around. Women
are judged as virtually criminal & deadly perpetrators along w/ their
health care providers, their bodies deserving invasive probing if not state
prosecution and disciplinary action as well.
I kept looking and waiting for someone, anyone, in the pro-life movement to take a public stance against invasive proposals by 2012 candidates and state legislators. I checked the Feminists for Life site just before writing this blog, hoping they'd of course take a stand for women, but if they have offered any public commentary, it's not clearly presented. The silence, especially of feminist pro-life advocates—ostensibly equally pro-woman—is unacceptable.
I kept looking and waiting for someone, anyone, in the pro-life movement to take a public stance against invasive proposals by 2012 candidates and state legislators. I checked the Feminists for Life site just before writing this blog, hoping they'd of course take a stand for women, but if they have offered any public commentary, it's not clearly presented. The silence, especially of feminist pro-life advocates—ostensibly equally pro-woman—is unacceptable.
Violence and brutality are intolerable wherever they occur,
period. There’s no violent death contest
where some brutal deaths “win” and are more deserving of media attention,
public response, and personal reflection than others. On one of the news reports today, one of the
reporters, commenting on the terrorist act at the Boston Marathon, suggested
that such acts of less major terrorism (as contrasted for example w/ the 9/11
tragedies) are now a reality that we in the U.S. just need to get used to.
No. We do not need to “just get used to it.” We do not have to accept the violence
infesting the global community in which we all live. We can choose to challenge
it: within our own lives and
relationships, as well as together in our communities and in our world. We can choose not to judge each other or
other living beings as less deserving of life, as threatening, as enemies.
There are no easy answers
to life’s complexities in a hurting world confronting all manner of violent trauma,
suffering, oppression, brutality, intolerance, famine, war... But non-violence is a choice. And seriously exploring and pursuing
non-violent solutions to the difficulties we share is our choice.